I filed the divorce in June. The forms were all signed on the same day, before the day of filing. One of the forms, the Answer and Waiver, is a form that says the defendant – her – doesn’t need to be officially served. They relinquish that right. It’s considered a literal answer to the divorce filing, and you can’t answer a filing before the filing is made. Did they alert me when I filed the form? No. Did they answer my calls? No. Did they answer my voice mails within 24 hours? About half of the time. At OHMYGOD o’clock, when this second shifter was snoring away. So, the Answer and Waiver form was re-signed, re-filed, and I spend another TWO WEEKS pestering them to find out if all of my forms were submitted. Yes, yes, they were.<\/div>\n
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All I had to do was call and schedule a court date. To be entirely fair, the clerk in charge of scheduling answers her phone every single time, and when I’ve called and left her a voice mail (after her stated hours, so I knew I was going to), she returned my call within my requested time frame. This clerk gets a thumbs-up.<\/div>\n
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I have two weeks and six days of waiting until my divorce hearing. According to the previously-mentioned awesome clerk, there is about an hour of waiting time for five minutes of court time. Now, I have to file two documents before that date, and then bring three copies of the Judgement of Divorce to the hearing with me.<\/div>\n
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That’s right. I get to fill out the actual Judgement. The Judge just signs it.<\/div>\n
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Two weeks and six days. <\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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