I realized yesterday morning that in changing the reason for our divorce, in updating it, she has fully placed the responsibility of the divorce on her shoulders.
We are getting divorced because she is unhappy with who she is with me. She has more fun as – and is more happy with – who she is without me, and who she was before me.
Am I seeing things skewed when this sounds like she has taken this decision and made it entirely her own? It seems armored from logic and from external perception and argument. It is grounded in subjectivity and personal perception. You cannot argue against those statements, except by arguing that right now, she does not know what actually makes her happy.
Tough case to make.